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Sisters’ Journey Celebrates – Dana Hébért
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On January 5, 2016, my business, Beauty By Dezign LLC, was featured in my town’s local paper. I was thrilled to be recognized as an upcoming salon for our African-American community in Manchester. However, the very next day, at age 43, I was diagnosed with triple negative breast cancer.
I was diligent about my end-of-year self-care routines, attending all my medical appointments and mammograms. I had actually rescheduled my mammogram and almost didn’t go to the appointment, but GOD intervened! When I found out about my diagnosis, my doctor was unaware that no one had informed me. He entered the room and said, “So the type of cancer you have…” My mind went blank and shock took over. I had to phone a friend because it was more than I could handle. Picture that, strong me, unable to handle it! But it’s cancer, and you must give it respect! My friend Marcy Kelly came to my side and asked the serious questions I couldn’t ask due to shock. The doctor allowed me to stay as long as I needed to process the news – I HAVE CANCER!!! Trust me, I took my time processing it!
I never imagined a breast cancer diagnosis not once but twice! I truly understand and relate to the power of hair. Let’s be honest… hair is a wonder power!
Although I had friends and family checking on me, one family member supported me every step of the way – my cousin Latasha Johnson. From my initial diagnosis, she was there. Without her during those late nights after treatment and long days, I don’t know what I would have done. My daughter Azeria, who was still at home, watched me like a hawk. During those late 3 a.m. Walmart trips (steroids kept me up all night), she would accompany me! My eldest daughter Zanaija was in college and worried from afar. It was very hard for them both.
The first time I was diagnosed with cancer, the care team informed me that I would undergo a lumpectomy, lymph node removal, two types of chemotherapy and radiation. One chemo drug was called “Big Red.” It was harsh! Honestly, I was in a fight-or-flight state of mind. I don’t remember many details. I just did what they asked… PET scans, needles galore, no questions asked! I did not know what to expect. After all, this was my first time with cancer, my worst fear EVER!
As an experienced licensed beautician, I continued to service my clients during my treatments. The client interactions, I truly believe, helped with my recovery. They were incredibly encouraging and understanding. Doing their hair gave me a purpose beyond what they could imagine. It brought joy in the midst of my storm, and I looked forward to seeing them see me.
I didn’t have any symptoms, but I was so in tune with my body that I asked my first oncologist, who had requested a lot of blood work (I didn’t fully understand why), “How will I know if cancer has returned?” He shrugged, then said, “Have you had a mammogram?” I didn’t need to hear more! I scheduled my appointment immediately.
In 2020, at age 47, I was diagnosed for a second time with triple negative breast cancer. This time, my approach was different. I was more prepared and ready to fight! I felt my oncologist and I weren’t in alignment, so I sought a doctor who would collaborate with me. Armed with knowledge of essential oils and natural healing methods, I refused parts of the treatment plan because of the toll on my body. It’s crucial to listen to your body and use common sense.
When I was diagnosed for the second time, my thoughts immediately turned to my two daughters. For their sake, I decided to take the BRCA test, which checks for abnormal changes in the BRCA1 and BRCA2 genes associated with breast cancer. Thankfully, the test came back negative.
I had a port for chemo both times, but this time, we also used a chemo pill as the follow-up. To be honest, I was ready to undergo my treatment plan of chemo, lymph node removal and a double mastectomy.
By God’s grace, despite having lymph nodes removed on both sides, I don’t have lymphedema. I was told that the constant arm movement required in my profession might have contributed to me not developing it. Thank you, Lord!
Throughout this journey, I leaned heavily on my faith and my relationship with God. I knew he would see me through. My life’s story was just beginning, and by HIS design, I had more to accomplish. Interestingly, the mental recovery after the storm proved to be the hardest part. Listening to stories of others sometimes made me feel my own was less significant, or even a bit guilty. But I reminded myself that my story matters too. Cancer is cancer, and surviving it is a testament to strength, no matter the details.
Despite the challenges of two separate diagnoses and treatments, I can only say, “BUT GOD!” After twice battling breast cancer, I am still here, using my God-given gift to uplift others by enhancing their inner and outer beauty at my salon, Beauty By Dezign, Wellness, and Hair Salon, in downtown Manchester, CT.
For my story in video form, visit my TikTok page, “Beauty By Dezign,” or my YouTube channel, “Beauty By Dezign LLC Wellness.” To improve your health, check out the 14-day reset program and holistic alternatives on my essential oils website, (Young Living) MyYL.com/ylwithBeauty.
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